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Here
is the “back story”of Living Legacies:
In the late 90’s, after my mother
had a stroke, my brother and I—who until that time had been
her primary caregivers—went through the process of having
to move her to a skilled nursing facility. We chose the historic
La Maison Hospitaliere in New Orleans’ French Quarter. Because
the stroke had put grave limitations on Mother’s ability to
communicate, I sensed that her integration into this new community
would be greatly hampered. How could they possibly know her as a
vibrant, intelligent woman? How could she transcend her broken body
requiring medicines, bathing, and assistance with meals? How could
relationships be built without appreciation of the whole person?
And how I wished we had not procrastinated writing down or recording
her memories of her remarkable life. But it was not too late.
Realizing other residents there were
in the same predicament, the idea of Living
Legacies emerged—to create a sensitive booklet about
each of their lives with pictures of family and friends that would
introduce them to staff and caregivers. I approached the Administrator,
Dr. Andrew B. Sandler. He encouraged my vision, and I began to create
Living Legacies for many of their residents.
The efforts produced greater than
unexpected results. Family members found the process of sharing
photographs and information to be healing to their own grief. The
residents loved the personal interest and attention. Staff members
were suddenly able to relate and hold meaningful conversations with
their patients. The facility consistently displayed the work, with
permission, to new families as they explored admission; and La Maison
continued to use the Living Legacies
collection as excellent public relations material. Sadly Hurricane
Katrina made reopening the facility impossible.
The concept of Living
Legacies has become even more relevant in this time
of “disconnect.” My hope is that people will want
to create these story albums at increasingly earlier ages
and in greater depth. Like a wisely invested savings plan,
the benefits of a Living Legacy only compound with the years.
In fact, it may well be of more value to your family than
traditionally bequeathed wealth.
My support team and I are ready to help you
create your perfect Living Legacy. We are a Christian company
serving people of all faiths.
Looking forward to hearing
from you,
Ariel Hollender |
Even when I am old and gray, O Lord,
do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to this generation
and your power to those who are to come.
Ps. 71:18
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